'They' say for every criticism you give a child it takes a hundred well dones to over ride that one remark.
So when your talking to your self is it averaged that every 100 compliments you only tell yourself 1 criticism. Or is it more the opposite way?
Some people have that sorted, they know and acknowledge the greatness that they are, then there's people a little more like me ...
I am not the 100 criticism to 1 compliment, I'm more 60 criticism - 40 compliment these days.
Why is it acceptable for me to pick myself apart (& as much as I hate to admit it, the people very closest to me, ) I have such high standards for us but know its not in a healthy balanced way?
We must learn to love ourselves the way we love others x
So when your talking to your self is it averaged that every 100 compliments you only tell yourself 1 criticism. Or is it more the opposite way?
Some people have that sorted, they know and acknowledge the greatness that they are, then there's people a little more like me ...
I am not the 100 criticism to 1 compliment, I'm more 60 criticism - 40 compliment these days.
Why is it acceptable for me to pick myself apart (& as much as I hate to admit it, the people very closest to me, ) I have such high standards for us but know its not in a healthy balanced way?
We must learn to love ourselves the way we love others x
Ever so true...all of it. I am getting better, gradually.
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